Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi – Together Since 2004
Not every Hollywood love story lasts, but these two have proved the odds wrong in the most fabulous way. Ellen DeGeneres met Portia de Rossi in 2004, and that was it—game over. The stand-up comic turned talk show icon and the sharp-witted actress from "Arrested Development" fell hard and fast.
After four years of dating, they sealed the deal in a dreamy 2008 wedding, just as gay marriage became legal in California. They’ve never had kids, but their lives are full: dogs, travel, and activism keep them plenty busy. In 2023, Portia turned her 50th birthday party into a surprise vow renewal, leaving everyone teary-eyed, including Ellen.
Elton John and David Furnish – Together Since 1993
What do you get when a rock legend meets a stylish Canadian filmmaker? One of the most iconic love stories in music history! Elton John met David Furnish at a dinner party in 1993, and it was an instant spark. They became civil partners in 2005 and made it official with a wedding in 2014.
Their love story includes two sons, Zachary and Elijah, both born via surrogate. In 2023, Elton wrapped up his "Farewell Yellow Brick Road" tour, saying goodbye to life on the road to focus on family. Together, they’ve founded the Elton John AIDS Foundation, making a big difference in the LGBTQ+ world.
Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka – Together Since 2004
This love story is part rom-com, part gourmet magic! Neil Patrick Harris, the superstar from "How I Met Your Mother," met actor and chef David Burtka in 2004, and it was a total match. The two started dating and built a beautiful life together, and in 2010, they welcomed twins Harper and Gideon through surrogacy.
Their 2014 wedding was straight out of a fairy tale: Elton John sang, and their friend Pamela Fryman officiated in Italy. In 2025, they teamed up on a cocktail and mocktail book called "Both Sides of the Glass," a fun nod to David’s sobriety and Neil’s love of mixology.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Justin Mikita – Together Since 2010
Who says gym crushes don't lead to forever? Jesse Tyler Ferguson, the Emmy-nominated star of "Modern Family," met Justin Mikita, a lawyer-turned-producer, at a West Hollywood gym in 2010. Their connection sparked a romance that led to a proposal in 2012 during a vacation in Mexico.
They tied the knot on July 20, 2013, in New York City, with playwright Tony Kushner officiating. The couple welcomed their first son, Beckett Mercer, in July 2020, followed by their second son, Sullivan Louis, in November 2022. Beyond their family life, Jesse and Justin co-founded the nonprofit "Tie The Knot," which supports LGBTQ+ rights through stylish bow ties.
Jim Parsons and Todd Spiewak – Together Since 2002
Before Jim Parsons was cracking everyone up on "The Big Bang Theory," he met Todd Spiewak on a blind date in 2002, and the rest is sweet, nerdy magic. Jim was an up-and-coming actor, Todd an art director, and their chemistry was instant.
After 15 years of laughs, red carpets, and building a life together, they said “I do” in 2017 at the glamorous Rainbow Room in NYC. Though they don’t have kids, they’ve created "Wonderful Productions," their own company producing inclusive shows like "Young Sheldon." They’re not just a power couple in love; they’re a creative duo helping make Hollywood more welcoming.
Wanda Sykes and Alex Sykes – Together Since 2006
Who knew a ferry ride to Fire Island could spark a lifelong love story? In 2006, comedian Wanda Sykes met Alex Niedbalski, a French businesswoman, during a trip to the iconic LGBTQ+ destination. Wanda was instantly smitten, and by October 25, 2008, they tied the knot in a private ceremony.
Just weeks later, Wanda publicly came out during a rally against California's Proposition 8, becoming a prominent voice for LGBTQ+ rights. In April 2009, the couple welcomed fraternal twins, Olivia Lou and Lucas Claude. Wanda often shares humorous anecdotes about parenting, including her decision to deny the twins' request for Instagram accounts, citing concerns about social media's impact on youth.
Cynthia Nixon and Christine Marinoni – Together Since 2004
It all started with a cause. In 2001, Cynthia Nixon and Christine Marinoni were both fighting for better public schools in New York City. That shared passion sparked a friendship, and by 2004, they were officially a couple.
Cynthia, known for her sharp-witted role as Miranda in "S*x and the City," and Christine, an education activist, proved that politics and passion go hand in hand. In 2012, after gay marriage became legal in New York, they tied the knot. They welcomed their son Max in 2011. Together, they’ve been unstoppable—Christine worked in the NYC mayor’s office, and Cynthia ran for governor in 2018.
Don Roos and Dan Bucatinsky – Together Since 1992
Some love stories are written in the stars—and in screenplays. Don Roos, the acclaimed screenwriter and director, met actor and writer Dan Bucatinsky in 1992 when he invited him to the premiere of "Love Field." Their connection was instant, leading to a partnership that has spanned over three decades.
In 2008, during a brief period when gay marriage was legal in California, they tied the knot, solidifying their commitment both personally and legally. Together, they have two children, Eliza and Jonah, whom they adopted in the mid-2000s. Dan chronicled their journey into parenthood in his heartfelt memoir, "Does This Baby Make Me Look Straight?: Confessions of a Gay Dad."
Kristy McNichol and Martie Allen – Together Since 1991
Kristy McNichol and Martie Allen have been rocking the quiet life together since 1991. Kristy was a massive TV star back in the day, winning two Emmys for her role on "Family" and making waves in "Empty Nest."
Martie had her own time in the spotlight, too, working briefly in TV before switching gears to focus on education and therapy. These two met in the early 1990s, fell hard for each other, and never looked back. Their home in Los Angeles is full of love—and a couple of adorable dogs. In 2012, Kristy opened up about their relationship to help young LGBTQ+ folks feel seen and supported.
Kate McKinnon and Jackie Abbott – Together Since 2016
Ever wonder what happens when a comedy legend meets a mysterious artist? You get Kate McKinnon and Jackie Abbott—low-key, sweet, and adorable. Kate, the hilarious star of "Saturday Night Live" and "Ghostbusters," met Jackie around 2016. Jackie’s an actress, photographer, and trained clown (yes, really!), and the two have been inseparable ever since.
They made their red carpet debut at the 2017 Emmys, and fans lost it when Michelle Visage casually confirmed they were a couple. Kate once said Ellen DeGeneres helped her feel proud of who she is, and now, she and Jackie are part of that same inspiration for others.
Cheyenne Jackson and Jason Landau – Together Since 2013
Sometimes love shows up when you're working on yourself. That’s exactly how Cheyenne Jackson and Jason Landau met—at a 12-step meeting in 2013. Cheyenne, the Broadway star and "Glee" fave, clicked instantly with Jason, an actor and business owner. Just one year later, they said, “I do” at a sweet outdoor wedding in 2014.
By 2016, their duo became a party of four when twins Willow and Ethan were born via surrogacy. These two dads are all about family, fun, and being open about their journey. In one sweet moment, Willow casually celebrated having two dads, proving that love is what makes a family.
Denis O’Hare and Hugo Redwood – Together Since 2000
A theater star meets a designer online, and the rest is pure magic. Denis O’Hare, known for scene-stealing roles in "American Horror Story" and "True Blood," connected with Hugo Redwood in 2000, and the pair hit it off right away.
Their love story took a big step forward in 2011 when they tied the knot just days after New York made gay marriage legal. But the real heart of their story? Family. They started fostering a baby boy named Declan when he was only two weeks old, and in 2014, they officially adopted him. Denis and Hugo are super vocal about adoption and how beautiful it can be.
Rufus Wainwright and Jorn Weisbrodt – Together Since 2007
When music royalty meets arts leadership, sparks fly! Rufus Wainwright, the baroque-pop maestro, and Jorn Weisbrodt, a visionary German arts administrator, began their romantic journey in 2007. Their bond deepened over shared passions, leading to an engagement in 2010.
By 2011, they embraced parenthood with the birth of their daughter, Viva Katherine Wainwright Cohen, co-parented with Lorca Cohen, daughter of the legendary Leonard Cohen. The couple's wedding in August 2012 was a Montauk affair to remember. Officiated by artist Justin Vivian Bond, the ceremony was graced by luminaries like Yoko Ono, Julianne Moore, and Carrie Fisher. Guests enjoyed lobster rolls and Champagne, dancing into the night at the Shagwong Restaurant.
Ryan Murphy and David Miller – Together Since 2010
Talk about a power couple with serious creative vibes! Ryan Murphy, the mastermind behind 'Glee," "American Horror Story," and "Pose," met photographer David Miller back in the 1990s. But it wasn’t until 2010 that sparks officially flew. They tied the knot in 2012, and that same year, they welcomed their first son, Logan, on Christmas Eve.
By 2014, baby number two, Ford, joined the party, and in 2020, they added Griffin to complete their adorable trio. David, a commercial photographer with a sharp eye, balances out Ryan’s Hollywood energy with chill artistry. These two make parenting look polished and playful.
Jodie Foster and Alexandra Hedison – Together Since 2013
When two creative minds meet, magic happens. In 2013, Jodie Foster, the Oscar-winning actress known for "The Silence of the Lambs," began dating Alexandra Hedison, a talented photographer and former actress recognized for her role in "The L Word. " Their connection quickly deepened, leading to a private wedding ceremony in April 2014.
Jodie is a proud mother of two sons, Charlie and Kit, from her previous relationship with Cydney Bernard. Alexandra, while not a parent herself, shares a close bond with Jodie's children. The couple maintains a low-profile lifestyle, occasionally appearing together at events like the MOCA Gala in 2023.
Jonathan Knight and Harley Rodriguez – Together Since 2008
Sometimes, the best love stories start with a workout. In 2008, Jonathan Knight, the "New Kids on the Block" star, met Harley Rodriguez, a former actor turned fitness instructor, at Barry's Bootcamp. Their connection was instant, leading to a deep bond that saw them through life's ups and downs.
In 2016, during a romantic trip to Africa with their families, Jonathan proposed to Harley under a supermoon on the Zambezi River. They quietly tied the knot in 2022, choosing a private ceremony during the pandemic. The couple resides on a farm in Massachusetts, where they care for their beloved animals and enjoy the tranquility of rural life.
Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black – Together Since 2013
When an Olympic diver and an Oscar-winning screenwriter cross paths, you know it's going to be epic. Tom Daley, Britain's diving sensation, met Dustin Lance Black, the mind behind "Milk," at a dinner party in Los Angeles in 2013.
Sparks flew instantly, and by May 6, 2017, they exchanged vows at Bovey Castle in Devon, England. Their family grew with the arrival of their first son, Robbie, in June 2018, followed by Phoenix in March 2023, both via surrogacy. In 2024, Tom clinched a silver medal at the Paris Olympics, with Dustin cheering him on from the stands alongside their sons.
George Takei and Brad Altman – Together Since the 1980s
Love at first stride? That's how it began for George Takei and Brad Altman. They met in the 1980s at LA Frontrunners, an LGBTQ+ running club, where George asked Brad to train him for a marathon. Their relationship blossomed, but they kept it private for over two decades. In 2005, George publicly came out, revealing their long-standing partnership.
In 2008, they became the first gay couple to apply for a marriage license in West Hollywood and married that September at the Japanese American National Museum in Los Angeles. Their multicultural ceremony included a Buddhist priest, a Japanese koto harpist, and Native American wedding bands.
Lily Tomlin and Jane Wagner – Together Since 1971
When Lily Tomlin met Jane Wagner in 1971, it was love at first sight. Lily, already a rising star in comedy, was captivated by Jane's brilliance after watching her award-winning TV special "J.T." She invited Jane to collaborate on her comedy album "And That's the Truth." Their creative partnership quickly blossomed into a romantic one.
Over the decades, they've become one of Hollywood's most enduring couples. Their professional collaborations include the Tony-winning play "The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe," written by Jane and performed by Lily. They married on December 31, 2013, in a private ceremony in Los Angeles.
Sean Hayes and Scott Icenogle – Together Since 2006
If you've ever watched "Will & Grace" and wondered who makes Sean Hayes light up in real life, the answer is Scott Icenogle. These two first crossed paths in 2006 on the set of "The Ellen DeGeneres Show," and what started as a behind-the-scenes friendship turned into a full-blown love story.
By 2014, they were married, keeping it sweet and simple with a private ceremony. Scott, a music producer and composer, has created tunes for shows like "The History of Comedy" and worked with artists like Christina Aguilera. Together, they even wrote a children's book in 2017 called "Plum," a whimsical reimagining of "The Nutcracker."
Melissa Etheridge and Linda Wallem – Together Since 2010
Rock icon Melissa Etheridge and TV producer Linda Wallem turned a decade-long friendship into a love story that fans adore. They began dating in 2010, and by May 2014, they tied the knot at the scenic San Ysidro Ranch in California, just two days after celebrating their shared birthday on May 29. Their wedding was a star-studded affair, with all four of Melissa’s children participating in the ceremony.
Linda, known for co-creating the hit series "Nurse Jackie," and Melissa, a Grammy-winning singer-songwriter, have become a beacon of love and resilience in the LGBTQ community. In 2023, they collaborated on Melissa's Broadway show "My Window," with Linda co-writing the production.
Robin Roberts and Amber Laign – Together Since 2005
When Robin Roberts met Amber Laign on a blind date in 2005, they both tried to cancel twice. Thankfully, fate had other plans. Robin, the beloved "Good Morning America" anchor, and Amber, a massage therapist and entrepreneur, clicked instantly over lychee martinis. Their bond grew stronger through life’s challenges, and they remained together through it all.
After 18 years together, the couple tied the knot on September 8, 2023, in a backyard ceremony in Farmington, Connecticut. Both brides wore custom Badgley Mischka gowns, and their dog, Lukas, donned a bow tie for the occasion. A second celebration followed in New Orleans, complete with a brass band and red velvet cake.
Samira Wiley and Lauren Morelli – Together Since 2014
Some love stories are just meant for the screen—and behind it, too! Samira Wiley, who stole hearts as Poussey on "Orange Is the New Black," met Lauren Morelli, one of the show’s writers, while filming. They started dating in 2014, and sparks quickly turned into something real.
After a dreamy engagement in 2016, they said “I do” in a beautiful Palm Springs wedding in 2017, both rocking custom Christian Siriano looks. In 2021, they became moms! Their daughter, George Elizabeth, joined the family, and the couple couldn’t be happier. Whether they’re sharing sweet parenting moments or stepping out in style, they’re total LGBTQ+ icons.
Matt Bomer and Simon Halls – Together Since 2008
Before they were husbands and dads, Matt Bomer and Simon Halls started with a work call. Matt, the star of "White Collar" and "Magic Mike," hired Simon, a big-name Hollywood publicist. The business chat turned into a real romance, and by 2011, they had tied the knot in a private wedding.
Their family life is seriously adorable. They have three sons—Kit, born in 2005, and twins Henry and Walker, born in 2008, all via surrogacy. Matt gave the world a heartfelt glimpse into their life when he publicly thanked Simon and their kids in an award speech in 2012.
Barry Manilow and Garry Kief – Together Since 1978
Here’s a love story that stayed backstage for decades. In 1978, Barry Manilow, the voice behind "Copacabana" and "Mandy," met Garry Kief, a TV exec who later became his manager. What started as a professional partnership quietly turned into a forever kind of love.
They kept things private until 2014, when they had a small wedding at home in Palm Springs. Though Barry stayed quiet about their relationship for years, he came out in 2017 and was blown away by the love and support. These two prove that some of the best love stories don’t need a spotlight to shine.
Matt Dallas and Blue Hamilton – Together Since 2010
TV star Matt Dallas, who played the lead in "Kyle XY," found real-life love with pop musician Blue Hamilton back in 2010, and they've been solid ever since. These two aren’t just a gorgeous couple; they’re seriously goals.
After three sweet years of dating, they got engaged in 2013 and made it official in 2015 with a laid-back, love-filled wedding. Later that year, they became dads by adopting a two-year-old boy named Crow, and in 2022, their family grew again with a baby girl named Rosa. But this pair isn’t just living the dream privately. Through their YouTube channel, they share honest, funny, and touching moments about being gay dads.
Abby Wambach and Glennon Doyle – Together Since 2016
Soccer superstar Abby Wambach met bestselling author Glennon Doyle at a book event in 2016, and it was love at first sight. Less than a year later, these two said “I do” and have been inseparable ever since. Glennon has three kids from her previous marriage, and Abby slid right into the “bonus mom” role like a total champ.
Together, they’re a force for love, truth, and change. Their podcast, "We Can Do Hard Things," has a substantial following and covers real, honest stuff about life and love. In 2022, they made waves by becoming the first queer women featured in bed for "Architectural Digest," and it was adorable.
Jonathan Bennett and Jaymes Vaughan – Together Since 2016
When “Mean Girls” star Jonathan Bennett sat down for a TV interview with host Jaymes Vaughan in 2016, he probably didn’t expect to find the love of his life, but that’s exactly what happened. These two hit it off fast, and by 2020, Jaymes was on one knee, proposing with a song he wrote just for him.
They got married in 2022 with a beach wedding in Mexico, surrounded by love, laughter, and zero mean girls. In 2021, they were the first gay couple to grace the cover of "The Knot" magazine. They also launched "OUTbound," a travel company just for the LGBTQ community, and co-host "Pridecast."
Lee Daniels and Jahil Fisher – Together Since 2010
Hollywood power duo Lee Daniels and Jahil Fisher have been turning heads since their serendipitous meeting at the Chateau Marmont in 2010. Lee, the visionary behind films like "Precious" and the hit series "Empire," was instantly captivated by Jahil's infectious laughter. Jahil, a talented stylist, initially played hard to get, insisting Lee ask for his number personally.
Their relationship blossomed despite a 12-year age gap, with Lee often praising Jahil's modern flair and humor. In 2016, Lee celebrated their sixth anniversary with a heartfelt Instagram post, showcasing their deep bond. While they don't have children together, Lee is a devoted father to his adopted niece and nephew, Clara and Liam.
Julie Mehretu and Jessica Rankin – Together Since 2000
When bold art meets big love, you get this iconic duo. Julie Mehretu, famous for her giant, layered abstract paintings, met fellow artist Jessica Rankin at a New York bar in 2000, and sparks flew fast. They made it official in 2008 and raised two sons together, Cade and Haile, all while juggling global art shows and creative collabs.
Their love story blended their personal and artistic worlds, with joint projects like the “Janus Suite” turning heads in 2017. Both have used their platforms to uplift LGBTQ voices in the art world, showing that love, family, and fierce talent can mix beautifully, even after the romance changes.
Heather Matarazzo and Heather Turman – Together Since 2016
Double the Heathers, double the love! Actress Heather Matarazzo, who stole scenes in "The Princess Diaries", met comedian and writer Heather Turman in 2016 while working on the indie film "Stuck." What started on set turned into something real and fast. By 2018, the two were engaged, and they tied the knot that same year in an outdoor wedding full of heart and happy tears.
In 2023, they swapped the Hollywood hustle for small-town vibes and moved to Michigan, where they’re living their best low-key life. Turman grew up there, and Matarazzo now swears by Midwestern peace: no kids, just love, laughter, and a charming garden.
Lance Bass and Michael Turchin – Together Since 2011
Boy band dreams and artsy vibes collided when NSYNC's Lance Bass met painter and actor Michael Turchin at a party in Palm Springs in 2011. They hit it off fast, and by 2014, they were saying “I do” in a lavish ceremony at the Park Plaza Hotel in Los Angeles.
That big day even aired on E! as "Lance Loves Michael: The Lance Bass Wedding", making TV history as the first gay wedding special on cable. Their road to fatherhood had a few bumps, but in 2021, their dreams came true when they welcomed adorable twins, Violet Betty and Alexander James, via surrogate.
Dot-Marie Jones and Bridgett Casteen – Together Since 2010
Who says love can’t be a fairy tale? Dot-Marie Jones, the powerhouse actress from "Glee", met writer and activist Bridgett Casteen in 2010, and their love story hit all the right notes. Bridgett already had two kids from a previous marriage, and Dot jumped right into the role of bonus mom.
In 2013, Dot pulled off the ultimate proposal at Disneyland during Gay Days, and yes, it was pure magic. That same year, they surprised friends with a sweet and simple wedding at their L.A. home just before Christmas. Beyond being adorable, they’ve used their platform to champion LGBTQ+ rights and give back to the community.
Michael Kors and Lance LePere – Together Since 1990
Designer Michael Kors met Lance LePere in 1990 when Lance joined his company as an intern. What started as a work connection turned into a decades-long romance. After over 20 years of love and style, they tied the knot in 2011 on a quiet beach in Southampton, with the mayor himself officiating.
Their wedding happened not long after gay marriage became legal in New York, making it a stylish moment in LGBTQ+ history. Though they don’t have kids, their love has been anything but small. Both are big supporters of charities like “God’s Love We Deliver,” helping people living with illness.
RuPaul and Georges LeBar – Together Since 1994
RuPaul met Georges LeBar on a dance floor at Limelight in New York City back in 1994, and yes, it was as fabulous as it sounds. Georges, an artist and ranch owner from Australia, was celebrating his 21st birthday when they locked eyes. The two hit it off, and nearly 23 years later, they got married in 2017 on that same special day.
While RuPaul dazzles fans on "RuPaul’s Drag Race", Georges prefers vast open skies, managing a massive 60,000-acre ranch that stretches across Wyoming and South Dakota. They don’t have kids, but they split their time between the ranch life and Beverly Hills glam.
Cherry Jones and Sophie Huber – Together Since 2008
When Emmy-winning star Cherry Jones moved in next door to Swiss filmmaker Sophie Huber in 2008, neither guessed they'd end up building a life together, but fate had other plans. Their neighborly chats turned into something more, and by 2015, they were married and glowing with that just-right kind of happiness.
Cherry, known for "The Handmaid’s Tale" and "24", has long been a bold voice for LGBTQ+ visibility in Hollywood. Sophie, a brilliant director behind "Harry Dean Stanton: Partly Fiction", has supported and created alongside her with love and flair. From New York stages to indie film sets, these two prove that sometimes, love does move in right next door.
Ricky Martin and Jwan Yosef – Together Since 2015
Pop icon Ricky Martin met artist Jwan Yosef on Instagram in 2015, and yes, the DMs were magical. Their connection started over art and quickly turned romantic, and by 2017, they were happily married. They created a beautiful, blended family with four kids: twins Matteo and Valentino and Lucia and Renn, all via surrogate.
Though they ended their marriage in 2023, they remain devoted co-parents and friends. From red carpets to rainbow-filled family pics, these two helped redefine what a modern queer family looks like. Ricky, a longtime LGBTQ+ advocate, and Jwan, a talented painter, showed the world that love can evolve and still leave something beautiful behind.